Ed Stetzer is a well-known missiologist and author, his most recent book being Compelled by Love, co-written with pastor and church planter Philip Nation.
The co-authors have been on a blog tour as of late to promote and discuss their book, answer questions about the book and the subjects it addresses, and also speak with any commenters on that particular website.
This week, the blog community of From the Ashes and Phoenix Preacher are please to have Nation and Stetzer come here and discuss their work with you!
Here is a summary of Compelled by Love from the book's website:
Missional and love are two words that need to be spoken together. Love is one of the key ideas taught in scripture. In fact, God describes himself as love in 1 John 4:8. As that is the case, it is essential to seek an understanding of love if we are to live like Christ - especially if we are going to join him on his mission.
Missional is a new word to many readers. Simply defined, it is living like a missionary no matter where you are in the world – home or foreign field – focused on and living for the mission of God. We believe that the church needs to take on a missional attitude in our ever-increasingly unchurched culture. But, just as we would send out missionaries to foreign lands to love the people and lead them into a relationship Christ, we must fulfill both parts of the equation as well.
Compelled by Love has been written to reorient people to the biblical portrait of love in the heart of God, the establishment of the church, and the formation of individual believers. When the ethic of “love” is combined with the attitude of “missional” in the church, believers will follow after the mission of God.
You may purchase the book at your local bookstore or through Amazon.
The rest of the lead article of this thread will be a question-and-answer format. Stetzer and Nation took the time to answer 15 questions about the book and related issues, four of those from PP readers.
After reading their answers, you can discuss and comment in the comments field. Both men will step by one or both of the blogs as their schedule permits in the next few days, so don't hestitate to interact with them!
Now, on to the Q&A.
What led both of you to write on this specific topic - living one's life in a missional sense, with a mindset of love for neighbors, coworkers and anyone else one sees in their part of the world?

Ed: First, let me thank you for allowing us some time with the readers of the Phoenix Preacher Blog.
We saw a need for Compelled by Love because so much of the missional material available to church leaders dealt with practice rather than motivation. In fact, much of my previous writings have dealt with the need to find our way out of the milieu of traditionalism and back to contextual Gospel ministry. To do that, the church must have the proper motivation. Love stands as one of the propelling forces for the church. We don’t think it is a mistake that the scripture says that “Christ’s love compels us” and “we should no longer live for ourselves.” (2 Corinthians 5). That is key to missional living.

Philip: We also wrote on this topic to give average Christians an entry-way into missional living. For the most part, the books and conferences highlighting missional living are directed toward pastors and church planters. We thought it would be helpful to give all Christians an accessible book about missional living.
Missional is defined differently by various Christian groups. What is your definition?
Ed: To put it simply, I define it as living as one who is sent. Jesus was sent by the Father and then he sent us (John 20:21). In more complex terms, missional means applying missiological principles to any and every context in order to more easily communicate the Gospel.
The terms like missio de,and incarnational are helpful and I use them all the time. But at its core, it is about sentness.
Is love for one's neighbor, and/or city, and the people in that city, the key factor in having a missional mindset?
Philip: Not completely, but it has major implications.
Love is a key to missional living because God reveals himself in terms of love (1 John 4:8). The primary responsibility of believers is to glorify God so our lives should deeply reflect his love.
When this is applied to living out our faith, love becomes a necessity because of the object of the mission – sinful people and a lost and hurting world. It will take a great deal of love to make the sacrifices necessary to reach a neighborhood, community, or city with the Gospel.
Ed: As Philip has said, love is necessary. But we would both be quick to say that it is a portion of God’s glory and revelation of himself to us. We are called to love in a myriad of ways and, therefore, love must be properly understood as serving others in Jesus’ name (Luke 4 ministry) and seeking man’s redemption for God’s glory (Luke 19:10 comes to mind).
Are you telling us, in Compelled by Love, that each of us should act as missionaries to the part of the world we live in and/or are called to, whether that’s our hometown or some place in Africa?
Ed: Yes – that is exactly what we are saying. Now, we know that there is a technical definition of a missionary, so I don’t want to get stuck there. But, it is the missionary impulse that we need.
Most of our churches have grown accustomed to a definition of missions as “somewhere over there.” Now, the Western church must see its cities and countries as a mission field.
On page 56, you reference people who are losing faith in the church and see it not as a place of love but of judgment. On this blog, there are people who can tell you stories of different kinds of abuse they received at the hands of fellow churchgoers and church leaders. What can we do to make our churches places of love, not abuse and pain, for believers and nonbelievers alike?
Philip: I have been in church my entire life and know that we as believers have often failed in the arena of love. It simply comes down to the type of service we are willing to render. Christ could not have been clearer when he called us by his own example to serve rather than be served (Mark 10:42-45).
When we are willing to fulfill the law of Christ and bear one another’s burdens, then abusive relationships in congregational life will become a distant memory. But as long as we demand our own needs be met first, then abuse will continue. All of our churches could use a season of self-examination and repentance. As we allow the Spirit to uncover our self-centeredness, then we can learn to live for the spiritual needs of members and the lost.
Ed: I preached last Sunday from Jesus’ parable about the wheat and the weeds—and how they two are indistinguishable until later on. So, there are a lot of people in the world who look like and talk like Christians but do some pretty ungodly things.
Three things come to my mind:
First, we need a realistic expectation that there will be hurt and pain. That is part of being in community with others. They hurt you and I am guessing that I have hurt many people because I am sinful and fallen. The church is a mess and will remain one.
Second, we have to make it “not O.K.” to call yourself a Christian and be a jerk, not love the hurting, and not show and share Christ. We have made this religious bargain that if you hold to right beliefs and hate your neighbor, you are orthodox. You’re not.
Third, I think churches need to restore internal accountability through church discipline. You cannot be a scriptural church if you cannot practice church discipline.
If I realize that I don't have that love for others you talk about in the book, should I question my salvation or affirm it and try to get 'on track' and ask God to fill me with that love for others?
Ed: We need this question to be asked on an individual basis. As you read 1 John 3 & 4, it is clear that believers love and when love is absent then we are walking in darkness. As a person reads Compelled by Love, we hope they will allow a scriptural examination to take place as to the state of their soul. If they are outside the kingdom of God, then repent and believe in Christ as the Messiah.
Do you really think the culture is "waiting to be embraced by love"? (p. 17)
Philip: My short answer is an emphatic “yes.” Think of the best-selling books of the moment: The Twilight Saga, The Last Lecture, A New Earth, &The Shack. Much of pop-culture, politics, and the arts constantly swirl around the emotional idea of love with its personal effects. As believers, we have experienced the only true love from God himself. As the Lord has “set eternity in the hearts of men,” then we should aim friends and neighbors in the direction of the one who can fully solve their inner longing.
How would implementing the missional mindset you suggest change the way many evangelical churches operate, including those that emphasize verse-by-verse/expositional teaching; programs to attract believers and nonbelievers alike; and practice such traditional methods of evangelism as passing out tracts, crusade-style evangelism, street witnessing, etc.?
Ed: Well, if you have read any of my earlier books, you probably know I have opinions on all of those things. But, the change that we suggest changes the hearts of the people rather than dealing with methodological change. But, I believe there will be both.
God is using all kinds of churches to reach all kinds of people. I tend to be pretty generous in some of these areas, trusting that God is guiding individual churches to the unique expression he has called them to.
That being said, I think some of our methods have produced consumers and consumers can be some pretty unloving people when their needs are not being met. On Sunday, I told my church (a little over 3000 attendees on Sunday) that big shows produce consumers that throw a few bucks in the offering plate and then complain they are not getting the show they wanted. I called them to be involved in small things (preaching from the parable of the mustard seed and the yeast). I think that small face-to-face ministry has to be a part of any of the things you mentioned above… and, if it is not, we produce a show and not a ministry.
By operating with a compelled love as described in 2 Corinthians 5, the change occurring first will be that of perspective towards other people. We will view them as people in need of mercy rather than interlopers wanting to change the way we “do church.”
Philip: In planting my current congregation, I had to change many of my perspectives. Like many ministers (and unlike my pagan-background friend Ed), I grew up in church, went to a Christian college, straight to seminary, and right into full-time ministry. Once I entered the world of church planting, my family was no longer safely inside the Christian sub-culture. Unless we took upon a merciful attitude toward outsiders to the kingdom of God, we would have given up early and gone back to a brick and mortar bunker-mentality congregation. Missional living moves beyond stylistic preferences and seeks to discover the best method to reach a neighbor with the power of the Gospel.
Like Jonah, we can become angry at the world and self-centered in not wanting to get out of the 'safety' of the Christian bubble. Why should we have a caring, redeeming and forgiving attitude towards the world?
Philip: For the greatest reason of all – Christ will be glorified when we lift up his name to the nations of the earth and call them to the salvation he offers. Beyond that lofty reason, there is a more personal one – because God left the splendor of his heavenly realm to show care toward us. As I have said to our church many times, God’s mission included reaching you with his mercy but it did not end with you. He has now invited us to join him in the work as he makes his appeal through us (2 Corinthians 5:20).
From Eric: Do you think that the Emerging/Missional church is a combination of the Lutheran ideal of being a missionary to your neighbor, and the evangelical ideal of sharing your faith through active evangelism?
Ed: Hi Eric. Love that question.
Let me leave off the “emerging” since that adds another element. But, Lutherans were way ahead on missional ideas. It was a Lutheran, Georg Viceodom, who helped shape many of these ideas.
The article is here:
http://goliath.ecnext.com/coms2/summary_0199-1287608_ITM
The article explained:
It was another German missiologist, Georg F. Vicedom, who has the honour of having developed the concept of missio Dei in a way that seems to be consistent with the more classical missiology that preceded Willingen, and quite different from the more radical missiology that, under the same label, was worked out during the 1960s. In his book Missio Dei, Vicedom emphasizes that mission is God's work from beginning to end. God is the acting subject in mission. However, Vicedom does not thereby exclude the church from the mission of God but includes it: "The mission, and with it the church, is God's very own work". (8) Both the church and the mission of the church are "tools of God, instruments through which God carries out His mission. (9)
In other words, it was a Lutheran who wanted to ground the idea of the missio dei in a Biblical understanding of mission. That is key today. (see my blog series on this here: http://blogs.lifeway.com/blog/edstetzer/the-meanings-of-missional.html).
You will see missio dei instruction in Missouri Synod Lutheran schools. At one Concordia they say,
THY 572 Missio Dei - 3 credits
Based upon Jesus' announcement of the Good News of the Kingdom of God, this course develops a Lutheran theology of mission that motivates Christians to proclaim the kingdom. It builds an understanding of the mission among the lost and hurting. Resources will include the Bible, the Lutheran Confessions, and missiological texts.
And, this is not new. Lutherans have been talking about the missio dei long before the modern missional movement.
So, yes. It is a combination of some of those ideas.
Missional living is an emphasis on the personal responsibility of each believer to show and share the good news of the gospel and the Kingdom.
From Eric: Could it be this new move of God toward Missional thinking is His way of showing us what He meant when He walked the earth?
Ed: I want to be careful about presuming upon the mind of God. I believe that the missional thinking we currently engage in is a continuation of what God has been doing for a long time. It is arrogant to think that, because we have a new word, we have discovered a new idea. We are just joining Jesus in His mission and people have been doing that a long time.
Now, I like what you ask because I think it does relate to the Kingdom of God, which was exceedingly evident when Jesus walked on the earth.
The early church operated in an openly hostile culture to Christianity and therefore had to live differently and took their faith more seriously. In our current day, we have too often been softened by Judeo-Christian society which has led us to believe everyone either believes or at least understands the claims of the gospel.
Missional thinking today is helping us to relearn Christ’s manner of incarnationally living his truth among neighbors. Eugene Peterson’s paraphrase of John 1:14 in The Message remind us of that purpose– “The Word became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood.” Missional thinking will ensure that we recognize the neighborhood in which we live.
From brian: The 21st century has given us a view of the world that was not possible before; the universe we view is not the same as when the Bible was written. Given our modern view how do we engage the younger generation who have many questions of origins, relevance, truth, and shall I say, have the most important human need, love?
Ed: I am currently finishing my next book regarding the younger generation entitled Lost and Found: The Younger Unchurched and Churches that Reach Them. Through my work on it and Compelled by Love, I have found that the questions the younger generation has now are similar to the questions which all generations have held out in the past. The difference lies in how they process information and prioritize issues.
Moving into their thought patterns is at the very least difficult for people of our generation (Last year, I crossed the threshold into my 40’s and Philip is right behind me). But, it can also be completely frustrating because this younger generation actually enjoys holding competing truth claims in their minds as equal to one another.
We will simply need to realize that they are farther from God than previous generations; much more like Mars Hill than Jerusalem.
Philip: I would add that we need to take hold of the younger generation’s stated desire to “save the world.” Every week, we hear about a new initiative to save the planet, save the environment, solve world hunger, end genocide, and the like.
The church should be the one entity on earth that cries the loudest for justice. In fact, we should weep when it is absent.
As we engage this generation, the majority who do not know Jesus, we can reach them through the relevant means of declaring justice as important to the God who authored it. Such a declaration will persuade them to Christ and open eyes to their sinful estate.
From Tim: I'm wondering if the authors could describe what they feel like the difference is between "missional" and "emergent/emerging."
Ed: Hello Tim and thanks for the loaded question. Grin!
Missional is a missionary perspective regarding Christian living. As I have said, it is “living sent.”
Emergent is a “conversation” (see “movement”) among different kinds of churches, some of which I find orthodox and some of which I do not.
Here is what I wrote in my book, Breaking the Missional Code:
The “emerging church” movement is a dynamic movement and worth understanding if a church takes serious the idea of breaking the missional code. Emerging doesn’t necessary mean missional, nor should we confuse missional as necessary meaning emerging. Churches can be missional and never be referred to or seen as part of the emerging conversation. On the other hand many emerging churches reflect wonderfully what it means to be a missional church, while other emerging churches like many traditional or more program churches have very little in common with what we are referring to as missional.
One of the challenges to understanding the emerging church like so many of our church expression it can’t be put into a neat box. To understand the emerging church we must avoid our temptation to lump them all together and to assume they represent one of two extremes—and some evil movement within the church or the salvation of the church. There are serious concerns about some segments of the emerging church. Thus, while we do embrace the desire of churches to connect with emerging culture, we do think that must be done without compromising the faith.
When we talk about missional churches we are not referring to a certain form, expression, model, type, or category of church… the issue is not what kind of church are you: modern, post-modern, seeker, emerging, traditional, house, etc.
So, I would say that a lot of churches called “emerging” would be far from “missional” in many communities. However, there are a lot of great emerging churches engaging their communities in missional ways.
I probably could say a lot more on that, but that would probably send the conversation another direction. In the next few days I will release a research paper on the subject as well.
From Victorious: How would you adjust church planting expectations, strategies and actions in an area such as Western Europe where you are most likely not going to enjoy the labors of those who have gone before you but are going to have to break up fallow ground and lay a foundation?
Ed: “Victorious” – now that’s a screen name!
I was just in Barcelona this Spring and will be in Krakow and Rome in the Fall. It is tough soil. You are not calling people “back” to church.
Let me say that I always avoid giving missiological advice in a culture I do not know. So, I am not sure about the specifics.
I would say that, generally, church planters in Western Europe should expect to labor longer in order to see disciple-making fruit. However, they can also expect to find a blanker canvas on which to paint the gospel. The population of Western Europe is a place where patient workers can hope to see a great production of disciples as they begin at Genesis and work people through God’s redemptive history.
(Last question) Without giving away too much of the book, what are some suggestions you have for people to become missional within their spheres of influence?
Ed: I would be remiss if I did not say that we should return to our first love. As I finished Compelled by Love, I was forced to think through the issues on an intensely personal level. My family had just moved to Nashville and we were putting down roots in a new community. As I did then, I would ask the reader to examine what they love and why. Missional living should choose to love a neighbor or coworker enough to put down relationship roots in their life. I hope that our readers will survey their personal relationships to ensure the Gospel has a clear path to every person they know.
Philip: Compelled by Love was born out of personal ministry; not vocational ministry. I would want to ask your readers one question: “when your neighbors or coworkers think about who they want to hang out with on the weekend, is it you?” In looking at the life of Christ, he was the man who sinners, tax collectors, and the infirmed wished they could be near. As his ambassadors, our homes should be the refuge of the hurting and our lives should be a comforting presence of the gospel’s power to the saved and compelling conviction to the lost. Missional living comes down to a personal investment into your own community. Where do you stand with the people who live around you every day?
Thanks again for allowing us to visit with you and your readers. I hope our book and this discussion will encourage them to living missionally in every arena of life.
Philip will be by to interact more when this is posted. Ed is speaking the morning of the 13th at a pastors conference at Liberty but will try to drop by between flights.